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Assisted Living in Oklahoma

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OVERALL STATE RANK

Overview of assisted living in Oklahoma

Assisted living communities in Oklahoma provide housing, meals, and personal care for older adults who need help with daily activities while maintaining their independence. The average monthly cost of assisted living in Oklahoma is $4,563, according to A Place for Mom’s proprietary data. From Oklahoma City to Tulsa to smaller towns like Beaver, families will find a range of assisted living options across the state, often at a lower cost of living than many other parts of the country.

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Assisted living state rankings report

State scorecard

How we determine rankings

Our 2023 state ranking for assisted living uses A Place for Mom’s proprietary data collected from our community partners. First, we sorted through our metrics and grouped them into three pillars that are key in a quality assisted living experience. We weighted these pillars differently based on insights from our senior living experts. Then, we used these categories and their weighting to determine how each state ranks.

Read our full methodology

Top ranked Oklahoma cities for assisted living overall

Key findings

54%
of communities are pet friendly
50%
of communities host off-site activities
44%
of communities have restaurant-style dining
51%
offer memory care services
58%
have medication management services
47%
offer respite care

Top ranked Oklahoma cities - Services & Amenities

Key findings

70%
of communities cost less than the national monthly median

Oklahoma vs. the national monthly median cost of assisted living

Top ranked Oklahoma cities - Affordability

Key findings

89%
of communities are rated 4 out of 5 for cleanliness
73%
of communities are rated 4 out of 5 for meals
72%
of communities are rated 4 out of 5 for care services
67%
of communities are rated 4 out of 5 for value for cost

Top-rated Assisted Living facilities in Oklahoma

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Victorian Estates

1129 Cameo Dr, Yukon, OK 73099
10
Review Score
14 reviews
Starting at
$X,XXX/mo
Karen M - I'm a loved one of a resident or client

We’ve been very impressed with Victorian Estates. Everyone there is welcoming and professional, and they go out of their way to make residents feel comfortable. It’s a clean, pleasant place, and we feel...

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10
10 Photos available
3
3 Floor plans available

Brookdale Claremore

1605 North Highway 88, Claremore, OK 74017
9.8
Review Score
40 reviews
Starting at
$X,XXX/mo
Diana S - I'm a loved one of a resident or client

The staff there is very caring and more than willing to answer any questions I have. [name removed] has been a great help. This is a really good facility.

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19 Photos available
9
9 Floor plans available

Legacy Village of Stillwater

5601 N Washington St, Stillwater, OK 74075
9.8
Review Score
66 reviews
Starting at
$X,XXX/mo
Anonymous - I'm a loved one of a resident or client

The management staff is knowledgeable and helpful. The one apartment I rented for my sister is perfect for a single or a couple. The living room, one bedroom, and closet are spacious. Another good report on...

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Top-rated Assisted Living facilities in Oklahoma City

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Victorian Estates

1129 Cameo Dr, Yukon, OK 73099
10
Review Score
14 reviews
Starting at
$X,XXX/mo
Karen M - I'm a loved one of a resident or client

We’ve been very impressed with Victorian Estates. Everyone there is welcoming and professional, and they go out of their way to make residents feel comfortable. It’s a clean, pleasant place, and we feel...

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Legend at Rivendell Memory Care

2800 SW 131st St, Oklahoma City, OK 73170
9.6
Review Score
87 reviews
Starting at
$X,XXX/mo
Anonymous - I'm a loved one of a resident or client

Care for my loved one during the week was excellent. Care over the weekend was inconsistent depending on who was working. I would recommend to others.

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14 Photos available
1
1 Floor plans available

Brookdale Oklahoma City Southwest

10001 South May Avenue, Oklahoma City, OK 73159
9.4
Review Score
29 reviews
Starting at
$X,XXX/mo
Anonymous - I'm a loved one of a resident or client

They are currently understaffed, which is understandable given the challenges many facilities are facing. I truly believe the team is doing the best they can with the resources available. My concern stems...

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Top-rated Assisted Living facilities in Yukon

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6
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Victorian Estates

1129 Cameo Dr, Yukon, OK 73099
10
Review Score
14 reviews
Starting at
$X,XXX/mo
Karen M - I'm a loved one of a resident or client

We’ve been very impressed with Victorian Estates. Everyone there is welcoming and professional, and they go out of their way to make residents feel comfortable. It’s a clean, pleasant place, and we feel...

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23
23 Photos available

Legend at Rivendell Memory Care

2800 SW 131st St, Oklahoma City, OK 73170
9.6
Review Score
87 reviews
Starting at
$X,XXX/mo
Anonymous - I'm a loved one of a resident or client

Care for my loved one during the week was excellent. Care over the weekend was inconsistent depending on who was working. I would recommend to others.

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14
14 Photos available
1
1 Floor plans available

Brookdale Oklahoma City Southwest

10001 South May Avenue, Oklahoma City, OK 73159
9.4
Review Score
29 reviews
Starting at
$X,XXX/mo
Anonymous - I'm a loved one of a resident or client

They are currently understaffed, which is understandable given the challenges many facilities are facing. I truly believe the team is doing the best they can with the resources available. My concern stems...

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Top-rated Assisted Living facilities in Edmond

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Brookdale Edmond Danforth

116 West Danforth, Edmond, OK 73003
9.2
Review Score
28 reviews
Starting at
$X,XXX/mo
Leota Henderson - I'm a loved one of a resident or client

My family member is there they have catered to all his needs. If I have a concern they will take care of it immediately without any problems. The patient and their family comes first. Caring and willing...

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20 Floor plans available

Lyndale Edmond Senior Living

1225 Lakeshore Dr, Edmond, OK 73013
9.2
Review Score
74 reviews
Starting at
$X,XXX/mo
Anonymous - I'm a loved one of a resident or client

I don't think they have an Exec Director and haven't for several months. Plumbing issues took a month to be resolved but not the maintenance folks fault as they had to order parts on their own credit cards...

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Legend at Jefferson's Garden

15401 N Pennsylvania Ave, Edmond, OK 73013
9.1
Review Score
70 reviews
Starting at
$X,XXX/mo
Jon H - I'm a loved one of a resident or client

The staff was absolutely great. Best we experienced in being at 4 different assisted living spaces. Food was good enough. Hospice services were amazing.

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Top-rated Assisted Living facilities in Tulsa

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Chapters Living of Tulsa

7807 S Mingo Rd, Tulsa, OK 74133
9.4
Review Score
105 reviews
Starting at
$X,XXX/mo
Terry W - I'm a loved one of a resident or client

Well, this is my first experience, nothing to compare. I have been impressed so far. All the ladies are very attentive to the patients. Usually very clean. She is in a shared room and has plenty of space. I...

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Bellarose Senior Living

18001 E 51st St, Tulsa, OK 74134
9.4
Review Score
47 reviews
Starting at
$X,XXX/mo
Anonymous - I'm a loved one of a resident or client

The experience with staff, the facilities, etc has been outstanding. Facility is always clean. [name removed] says the food is always very good. Staff we have dealt with have been helpful and extremely easy...

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Legend at Tulsa Hills

701 W 71st St, Tulsa, OK 74132
9.3
Review Score
97 reviews
Starting at
$X,XXX/mo
Anonymous - I'm a current/former resident or client

We're very pleased with the room and physical layout of the facility. Staff are very friendly and professional. Definitely would choose Legend again.

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Cost of assisted living in Oklahoma

In Oklahoma, the average monthly starting cost of assisted living is around $4,563, which is $54,756 per year, according to A Place for Mom’s proprietary data. This amount is slightly lower than the national average monthly cost of assisted living ($4,752) and includes room and board at our partner communities. Other factors can affect the total cost of assisted living include:

  • Location
  • Apartment size and layout
  • Services and amenities

Compared with the cost of living in neighboring states, the cost in Oklahoma is in the middle of the range. Communities in Kansas and Texas usually cost more, while those in Arkansas and Missouri offer some savings. Costs vary throughout the state as well. In general, rates in urban communities such as Tulsa and Oklahoma City are generally higher than the state’s average cost. Look for more suburban communities in places such as Broken Arrow and Edmund to find savings while staying close to city amenities.

Cost is an important consideration when choosing senior living but finding the right level of care for your loved one matters most. For seniors who need specialized memory care, communities that provide these services are comparable to the cost of assisted living.

Read more:Assisted Living vs. Memory Care: 5 Key Differences

Average assisted living costs in Oklahoma vs. national

Average monthly costs

Oklahoma

$4,598/mo

US National average

$4,758/mo

Assisted living costs in Oklahoma vs. nearby states

Average monthly costs

Oklahoma

$4,598/mo

Kansas

$5,106/mo

Arkansas

$4,334/mo

Texas

$4,739/mo

Missouri

$4,058/mo

Assisted living costs in Oklahoma cities vs. the state average

Average monthly costs

Oklahoma

$4,598/mo

Tulsa, OK

$4,979/mo

Moore, OK

$4,902/mo

Assisted living costs in Oklahoma vs. other senior care types

Average monthly costs


Senior living cost in Oklahoma vs national costs

Cost comparison table. This table contains 3 rows of data across 4 columns.
Column communityType: Community type
Column currentState: Oklahoma
Column usAverage: U.S.
Column costDifference: Cost difference
Community typeOklahomaU.S.Cost difference
Assisted Living$4,598/mo$4,758/mo3.4% below national median
Memory Care$4,574/mo$5,022/mo8.9% below national median
Independent Living$3,969/mo$4,217/mo5.9% below national median
Assisted Living
Oklahoma:$4,598/mo
U.S.:$4,758/mo
Cost difference:3.4% below national median
Memory Care
Oklahoma:$4,574/mo
U.S.:$5,022/mo
Cost difference:8.9% below national median
Independent Living
Oklahoma:$3,969/mo
U.S.:$4,217/mo
Cost difference:5.9% below national median
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Paying for assisted living in Oklahoma

In Oklahoma, most families use a combination of private funds and public programs to cover the costs associated with assisted living. Because costs and eligibility can vary widely, it’s best to plan early to understand which payment options apply to your loved one’s situation. For an in-depth look at different payment options, visit our complete guide to paying for long-term care.

Private pay options

Private pay is the most common way that families in Oklahoma pay for assisted living. Personal savings, income from retirement and investment accounts, and Social Security benefits are some private pay options. Other sources of private funds include the proceeds from the sale of a home and long-term care insurance.

VA benefits

If your loved one is a veteran or a surviving spouse, they may be eligible for benefits from the U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs (VA), which can offset some assisted living costs. Navigating the process of applying for VA benefits can be complex and time-consuming, so we recommend seeking help from an accredited benefits counselor.

Oklahoma’s Department of Veterans Affairs provides benefits counseling with county-based veteran service representatives. Call 888-655-2838 to schedule an appointment or find a local representative.

Medicaid

Medicaid is a joint program of the federal and state governments and is designed to support people who have low incomes and certain conditions and disabilities. In Oklahoma, the Medicaid program is also known SoonerCare and won’t cover room and board in assisted living, but can be used to pay for:[02]

  • Doctor’s visits
  • Physical and occupational therapy
  • Medical supplies
  • Prescriptions

Oklahoma seniors who qualify for the state’s Aged, Blind, or Disabled entitlement program may be eligible for help with personal care services, nutrition counseling, some transportation, and more.[03]

SoonerCare also offers a home- and community-based services (HCBS) waiver program, which may expand what Medicaid pays for to cover costs associated with assisted living. The ADvantage Waiver supports elderly or disabled adults who need a nursing facility level of care and who don’t have a diagnosed intellectual disability or cognitive impairment. Covered services include personal care services, care management, personal emergency response systems, and more.[04]

To learn more about SoonerCare and how it might help offset some costs that your loved one may incur while in an assisted living community, contact the SoonerCare Helpline at 800-987-7767.

Medicare

As a federal health insurance program, Medicare covers specific health care costs for eligible older adults. While Medicare won’t cover room and board costs for assisted living in Oklahoma, it can be used to cover medically necessary expenses, which can help offset the cost of assisted living for seniors and their families.[05]

To access Medicare benefit counseling, Oklahomans can reach out to the Oklahoma Senior Health Insurance Counseling Program (SHIP). This program offers one-on-one assistance, counseling, and education to Medicare beneficiaries, their families, and caregivers to help them make informed decisions about their care and benefits. You can reach the SHIP office at 800-763-2828.

Assisted living requirements and regulations in Oklahoma

In Oklahoma, the Department of Health, Protective Health Services, Long Term Care Services Division provides licensure and oversight for residential care communities. There are two types of licenses:

  • Residential care homes provide personal care assistance. Residents must be able to walk and manage their own evacuation and personal affairs and mustn’t need regular skilled nursing care.
  • Assisted living centers provide personal care assistance and are also licensed to provide unscheduled nursing care, medication assistance, and help with activities of daily living (ADLs).

Residential care homes must be inspected at least three times per year, while assisted living centers are inspected at least every 15 months. These and other regulations are designed to ensure residents receive safe, cost-effective care by establishing standards for facility operation, staff training, and resident care.

How to check license status and inspection reports for Oklahoma assisted living facilities

Use the Oklahoma Department of Health’s Long Term Care Provider Survey/Inspection Search tool to understand a community’s license status and recent survey results.

Why do licensure and inspection reports matter to families?

State regulations — and a community’s track record with inspections and licensing — offer important insights into safety and quality of care in senior living communities.

Download the Guide to Senior Living Licensure and Inspection Reports to learn what to look for in inspection reports and what questions to ask when touring communities. This resource explains how to use state licensure and inspection information to evaluate a community’s compliance, care standards, and responsiveness to issues.

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References

  1. A Place for Mom. (2026). A Place for Mom Proprietary Data.

  2. Oklahoma Health Care Authority. Sooner Care member handbook.

  3. Oklahoma Health Care Authority. (3 Oct. 2025). ADvantage waiver program.

  4. U.S. Centers for Medicare and Medicaid Services. Get started with Medicare. Medicare.gov.

  5. Oklahoma Administrative Code. Chapter 680: Residential care homes.

Top cities in Oklahoma for assisted living

8.6
Yukon, OK
19 facilities
8.4
Oklahoma City, OK
44 facilities
8.4
Broken Arrow, OK
25 facilities
8.1
Tulsa, OK
33 facilities
7.8
Edmond, OK
19 facilities
7.3
Norman, OK
8 facilities

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